As a child, Stacey spent years in school struggling to keep up with other students. While math was always her favorite subject, reading was not. She remembers having panic attacks and anxiety issues at a very young age. Because many children and even teachers would make fun of her reading skills, she developed very defiant behavior. Instead of getting the support and attention she needed to improve her reading skills, she was often in trouble for her behavior. Stacey was eventually diagnosed with dyslexia.
Stacey met her future husband in 9th grade and in 10th grade she discovered she was pregnant. Knowing how hard it would be to raise a child as a teenager, she opted for adoption. Stacey remembers vividly not being able to read all of the words on the adoption contract and having to rely on her mother to make sure it included all the terms she wanted. When she decided to return to school after the adoption, she realized that she was too far behind in her studies and could not catch up on the work. Stacey decided not to reenroll.
Eventually Stacey and her boyfriend married and had two more children. When her eldest son, David, began struggling in school, she immediately decided to get him tested and just as she suspected he was diagnosed with dyslexia. Stacey was very insistent on getting her son the extra help and support he needed to succeed, and David entered a school which could accommodate his learning differences. Stacey saw David face many of the same challenges she had faced as a child. Unlike her experience, he was able to overcome them with a lot of hard work and support. Unfortunately, David was fatally shot right before he entered high school. Everyday Stacey thinks about her son’s accomplishments, which keep her focused and motivated. “I saw that David could do it and because we were so much alike, I know that I can do it too!”
Stacey enrolled in Pre-GED classes in the spring of 2008. At first saw was very nervous, especially when she read aloud in class. It took while for her to feel comfortable, but she never gave up and soon found the support she needed to gain her confidence. Although she still faces many challenges, Stacey says “I will never give up; no matter how long it takes.” For the first time in her life, she was able to read an entire novel. She cannot believe how many improvements she has made since she started classes. “I absolutely love to read now,” Stacey states. She is currently reading The Sisters Grimm novel series and she cannot wait the start her next book!